Comments | aeshna_cerulea: Pissed

aeshna_cerulea

Pissed

Jun 25, 2006 21:02

I'm so livid right now I can barely breathe. The last thing I need in life is my inlaws judging me. Just freaking pissed. And the fact that John and I let their judgment cause an argument between the two of us makes me even more livid. I want to beat them with my dog, except she doesn't deserve that kind of treatment. They come over when I'm ( Read more... )

family, anger

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bunnyshan June 26 2006, 03:29:04 UTC

Hugs my dear....I think you are a wonderful mom. Definately on my list of who I aspire to be.

aeshna_cerulea June 26 2006, 05:08:10 UTC

You are too sweet. Thank you very much.

dragonlady74 June 26 2006, 04:17:43 UTC

I have a truck, several shovels, two tarps, some rope, and lots of land.

aeshna_cerulea June 26 2006, 05:04:07 UTC

I have always wanted to have a girlfriend who would help me dispose of the bodies! :) Thanks

wyldalecs June 26 2006, 15:46:43 UTC

Ummm, you have them! Would today be good for you? I personally take pride in my disposal of the bodies - oh and the ability to never leave a trail of evidence - oh and the mindset to let them see it happening only for a brief moment as to give the satisfaction that they will know why they are being disposed of and by whom. And btw, did I mention bodies make great fertilizer? You can grow your organic items over them! Damn IL's!

trillyon June 26 2006, 06:29:55 UTC

I'm game, we can all be each others alibi. All we need is the right poison for their next dose of coconut oil, right:) Stupid uppity "Whole-Paycheck Market" snobs. Maybe when HE works for the money they spend as much she does even. They just don't get it. And I know you are a fabulous mother. Glorious even;)

GRRRRRRR!!!

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bluemezzo June 26 2006, 04:19:39 UTC

That absolutely sucks! It's understandable that you're pissed, I would be too. FYI, I'm with everyone else...I think you're a GREAT mom.

aeshna_cerulea June 26 2006, 05:08:49 UTC

Thanks, I really appreciate it. I'm glad I have girlfriends to get my back.

ladypentacles June 26 2006, 06:08:49 UTC

They have been making me angry for 15 years from a distance, so I can't imagine what it's like to have them up close and personal.

I'm sorry, honey. You are a wonderful mom. Plus, we all grew up on peanut butter and cows milk and we turned out fine. We all have to cope with our own bodies and diets as an adult, and just hope that our parents did the best they were able to, which you are clearly doing for your son.

And, let's get right down to it. How you raise your child is NONE OF THEIR GODDAMN BUSINESS. They are not his parents--you are. And when you're not there, I will be. Look out, Oakleys!!! I got the rage on. ;-)

aeshna_cerulea June 26 2006, 13:52:05 UTC

I know, it's crazy how involved they think they should be in John's life at this age. And this is them after having taken a step back. I was so angry last night I almost wrote them a "back the fuck off" email stating pretty much what you just said. They had their chance when raising John, they didn't do everything right then either, but they did the best they could, and that's what I'm doing. Ah well, this morning I find that my rage is gone and that I pity them more than anything else. My son is a healthy, happy, intelligent, and beautiful child. I must be doing something right.

Now must_obey_me June 26 2006, 13:51:39 UTC

That's just crazy hippie talk if you ask me.

Maybe we should invite them to my house. Damn, they would really think I was a terrible mother. You would be Mother of the Year in their eyes by comparison. (Hey Rayn, you want a Twinkie with Jiff Peanut Butter on it."
=]

Their opinion is simply their opinion, you don't need their approval or their advice. I agree with you, John should have said something. You may have gotten into an argument but at the very least you let your opinions be heard. Which hopefully will help in the future.

I will happily help in the body disposal.

Re: Now aeshna_cerulea June 26 2006, 13:54:23 UTC

lol...thanks. Looks like we have a late night trip into the desert planned for burial. heh...I'm feeling much better this morning and am more in the place of "none of their fucking business". I still hate that they judge me, but I'm not going to let it change anything.

Re: Now must_obey_me June 26 2006, 14:25:12 UTC

Can we hit Vegas after the deed is done? Hanging out with you girls in Vegas would be a wild time. =]

Re: Now aeshna_cerulea June 26 2006, 14:46:10 UTC

Wohoo! That would be a blast! I'm all for it.