A Kinda...Jealous?

[tezuka_andria]

First, I am a 14 years old girl, and currently the class top 1. Since I was that, I HAVE to join different club activities and out of school contests to gain extra grades. So I was always out of my classroom

Comments

[marblespire]

> What I want to say...."I'm enough of this".

I think you meant "I've had enough of this"--sorry, editor!me took over.

If that's what you want to say, why don't you say it? Go to your two friends and say, "Hey, I feel left out and very lonely. I wish we could spend more time together." Don't be accusatory, just make a statement about your feelings. If they still care about you, they'll respond. =)

[hidingwords]

i noticed this too but it's pretty obvious that english is not their first language so i didnt say anything...

and yes, i agree with what you said about them telling their friends how they feel.

[katelovesyou]

the first thing that popped into my head was that old girl scout song.
"Make new friends, but keep the old. One is silver and the other gold. A circle is round and has no end, that's how long I want to be your friend!"

It's ok for your friends to become friends. Just tell them how you feel. Communication is the most important part of any relationship or friendship.

[yaoyin_12]

I am not sure if I am giving you advice, but, I am also going through the same thing. =D

[tezuka_andria]

Well, for me FRiend A is my best friend, well, I don't know if the same is for her...And I think I couldn't say such complicated things [I'm kinda shy though.....] since, yeah as I've said before, I don't think she thought me as her best friend so I think I have no right to say such...

[yaoyin_12]

Yeah. Mine's similar. I'm not sure if she sees me like how I see her.
What do you think of her? Try expressing yourself a little. Make new friends. It might hurt though. talk to her about it. Or talk to them about it. be it face to face or cyber-ly.

[ickletarakins]

If you feel like they are leaving you out of activities/conversations on purpose, you should talk with them...but chances are that at your age, they don't even realize what they are doing. And regardless, I know how difficult it can be to stand up to your friends when they are upsetting you.

The best thing I can say is that you are young and situations like this WILL arise. This happened to me a few times throughout middle school and high school, but I promise that once you get into college it gets better and happens less and less often. In the real world, it rarely happens at all...at least in my experience.