You really wanna do this? If there are already such discrepancies between you and her, it sounds like a marriage that is quickly going to make you unhappy.
I mean what discrepancy? We have one issue which is her moving to the United States. I know it is a big issue, but she were American we would have gotten married by now. This is the only issue we are facing right now.
The plan is for her to come stay with me for a few weeks in the USA. See how she feels about the country. If she likes it cool we get married if not we end the relationship then, and there. She just needs to decide if this is what she wants to do. We broke off our relationship before, and I fooled around with other women during the break. Despite this she still came to China so it is hard to ignore the fact that she still made the effort to come here for me.
If I recall what it took until she finally came to China and what a "tug of war" it seemed... It wouldn't just sound like the appropriate base to found a marriage on. But, well, it's your life, your decision.
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The plan is for her to come stay with me for a few weeks in the USA. See how she feels about the country. If she likes it cool we get married if not we end the relationship then, and there. She just needs to decide if this is what she wants to do. We broke off our relationship before, and I fooled around with other women during the break. Despite this she still came to China so it is hard to ignore the fact that she still made the effort to come here for me.
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But, well, it's your life, your decision.
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