Good Day/Bad Day

[a_clever_one]

So I have really terrible coping mechanisms.  I have just gotten home from spending a week with Vic, and it was a really great week, a wonderful week in fact.  Needless to say I did not want to leave yesterday to come back here.  But I have class and work and I really have no choice.  Lately I have become terribly frustrated with the fact that we

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[lonevettar]

That's part of why I don't do distance well. I just don't know what to tell someone who isn't there, and then the frustration sets in, and then it's a total meltdown.

You'll get through it, though. If you need to vent or anything, let me know. Hell, I kind of need to, too, and I can think of far worse people to do it to than you, o pretty cousin.

[xsands]

Long distance is rough that way. *attempts to nod sagely* The two things I find most frustrating are:

-Misunderstandings over the phone that would probably have never happened if you were in person and could see the persons non-verbal communication

-And listening to things that the other person would probably never bother to tell if you were in person and are unfortunately on the slightly more boring side of things, but since all you can do is talk you end up discussing it anyways.

[impernious]

Yes, yes. Those two things exactly. And not ever being able to see the person ever!

[sune_kitty]

I'm now in the same boat. Tim's in Florence and I'm stuck here. Must graduate. Must, there is no other option, cause I need to graduate... but I miss him already. maybe we can get together and be pitiful?

[xsands]

We should be in BR this weekend being pitiful for our birthdays. I guess let one of us know if you want to be pitiful with us for your birthday also.

[a_clever_one]

I approve of this plan. And maybe by getting together and being pitiful we won't be so pitiful.

[impernious]

Here's to not being pitiful!

[auron_culari]

Yeah, long distance sucks rather alot. I've been in a couple of those relationships, and might end up in the situation for a while here in a few months... but sometimes that's what life hands you, and you make the best of it.

Let me know if I can ever facilitate more hanging out, btw. The tour through the Quarter, while it didn't fulfill the original function, was really nice.

[a_clever_one]

I agree it was really nice. I would very much like to do it again.

[fairytale52]

Long distance is really hard... I'm doing it too and will have 3 more years of it. It always makes things uncertain, never knowing if you can make it through that long. But we try our hardest...

[a_clever_one]

We do indeed.