sad beyond no return

[livinginhell5]

sad  is just an under statement as many of you know my best friend past away in october. well his birthday is on christmas and all i can do is think about him i have been crying for 4 hours straight now i'm pissed that he left that he's gone and i never got the chances to say my good byes i'm hurting so much right now. i feel abonden an so weak

Comments

[thetiss]

Honey, you'll never get over your friend's passing, I'm sad that people want you to believe that you will. You can still say goodbye to him, I suggest lighting a candle and saying or writing everything that you would say but direct it at him in voice. I'm sure he'll get your message and I'm sure he misses you as much as you miss him. Keep his spirit alive with happy memories, I know you can get through this hard time.
Take care of you,
Love,
Natasha~
http://love.voicesofstrength.org
xo

[sistahraven]

It's so wrong that they're telling you to get over the loss of someone so close after only a month and a half. It took me years to cry out all the sadness when I lost someone that close. The feelings are too intense to just ignore. When the tears seem to be overwhelming, just remember that he's still with you in spirit, and that he wouldn't be angry that you're upset. He knows how much he meant to you, even if you never got to say it

[ladycatherina]

*Hugs* Sorry about your loss, sending you loving thoughts.

[briar_witch]

I've never understood why so many people believe you can just "get over it" when something bad happens. It's not that simple. Many safe hugs to you.

[passiondreamer]

lots of hugs.