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[ungemmed]

Does anyone else kind of keep shields up around other people? I think it's why being around people I don't know well tires me so much, and why when I'm really upset/depressed/unstable-feeling I can't bear to be around anyone, not even people who I'm really close to.

It's weird, because I need these to just kind of keep my emotional integrity

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[sunflowrgoddess]

i echo those sentiments completely.

[cz_unit]

shields... hm. More a personality that works in an extrovert world.

And yes, it does drain. Reason why I recharge while being alone. Reading, hacking, being with someone close...

Chris

[plastermind]

Yes, recharging alone is what seems to be the most effective and commonly used method for me... which is why I become so estatic and inspired upon finding someone that aids in the fueling process.

[elusivebev]

I have to be alone for the most part. Especially if I'm depressed or anxious. I can't tolerate to be around anyone at some times, and it can really create a lot of tension and turmoil within me if I feel obligated to be around people for too long.

I do love my family and friends, and they can be a nice escape now and then, so I have to force myself to be around them at times. But, for the most part I prefer spending my time alone shopping, reading, etc. We are just very independent people. We need time alone to recharge. I like it that way.

[caffron]

Forgive me, all those who hate sci-fi!

When you have to divert too much energy to the shields, you just end up draining from life support.

Quite literally, I need time alone sometimes to "recharge."