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[__curfew]

i hate being emo but sometimes i feel lost. as my friends all know, im adopted. but im different then other adopted kids. i had a mother and a father, two brothers & a sister. the only problem was.. my father ran away. i never found out who he was or anything about him. because of this.. there is a part of me that is missing. everyone can turn to

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[_goodbye_mylove]

lauren feel better. i wish i could help and i'll try my hardest because i kno we are becoming better friends. if you need to talk to anyone i'm here for you.

[purexpoison]

wow darling i had no idea. im here for you<3

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[oopinkstripeoo]

Loren, i know that right now, you feel lost without him. But you are like family to me. Though i cant tell you why you have freckles, or where you got your booty, im here for you when you need anything.

[anonymous]

i cant really say i no how u feel bcuz im not in the same situation. i wish i had the rite things to say and the rite things to tell u how to feel better. but i realy cant, but i can try...
well i have some cuzins an they r really happy, their both adopted. i dont no if they no their real background but they still love their parents, their grandparents, all their family just like it was their truly real family. dont think of ur family as something u were put into, think of them as ur real family. the ones hoo helped raise u, the ones by ur side, the ones hoo r the gr8 ppl in ur life. sometimes u may wonder about the other family u mite have had but just realize... that u have it great and u have ppl that will stay by ur side through thick and thin.
<3 sarah
i hope that was ok.

[anonymous]

Loren, you have been good to me and bad in the past. Now this post should not be on the offensive, but another view of your problem. Please think about this from my stand point. You are adopted, but blood isnt only family. Nice family, with parents that love you. Now, your father left. I know it is sad. You feel like nobody know what that its like. Now, you can cry (remeber on offensive, but a different view) about your biological parents any time you want. People will find it reasonable why you are crying, but think of this. Douism. Yes we all learned it in the sixth grade, and some learned a little more in the seventh. Douism states that things happen for a reason, and that the only reason why you are sad now, is that something extraoridnary made you feel so happy before. Now, missing a valuable person in your life is hard to deal with. And i know you may (may is the key word, i dont know what you think) think about your biological parents everyday, but you usually over come it with joy. Not trying to compare, but 9-11 people now

[__curfew]

no offense or anything, but you probably dont know what its like to be adopted. you dont really have a point to what you are saying and your comparing me to things from the past. relevance=none. i wrote this post because it is what i feel, if your gonna make an opinion to it, thats great, but have it make sense and dont compare me to things. im myself, no one else can take the place of me and no one else is me. no one feels how i feel no one else is in my shoes right now. so you dont know how i feel & your 'opinion' if thats what ya want to call it wasn't exactly opinion but facts from the past taht have no relevance to me and the fact that i feel i have something missing in my life. you obviously didn't read my whole post. but thank you for taking your time posting all of that to something you didn't read.

[_hollywood__]

loren. i can't say that i really understand what you're going through. but my best friend might. she's adopted. talk to us if you need to. stay strong my love<3

[in_ur_face]

i understand u a little wat i dont understand is the fact that u do actually have a father u kno he just doesnt have the same dna for u. he was the one that cared for u took u places ur mom to but if i was in ur shoes ya i would wonder about my birth dad but i would no that my true dad is right there for me and u can turn to him u can ask him uestions he might not kno some things but he wasnt the one that ran away and hes there for u and loves u just like a birth dad would do. the only difference is the dna. thats it and that shouldnt be extremly important. ya it would be nice to kno but the important thing is some people doent even have parents at all or some dont have a mother and some dont have a father but u do. i wuv ya.