It's been a while, so here's some recent +/- happenings ( Read more... )

This post has been stewing for a long while; I mentioned it in an omnibus post almost two years ago.

Some time ago I was thinking a lot about the topic of trust, who I trusted, and what that means. I think there are (at least) three major factors to consider.

1- Intent vs JudgementThe first distinction I make is the difference between trusting ( Read more... )

This post has ruminating for a while, and seems ready (enough) tonight.

I'm in an interesting (to me) place in terms of my life. It feels like, after seven(!!) years of trying to change careers, I'm finally there. I have an interesting job doing what I want to do and went to school for. It pays me well, offers challenges, is a good work ( Read more... )

What do you want in a relationship?

About a week ago I downloaded the audio of a lecture entitled "How to Do Precisely the Right Thing at All Possible Times" (23MB mp3, 50 minutes), by Daniel Gilbert ( Read more... )

If you are reading this, this is for you ( Read more... )

Excerpt from an email ( Read more... )

In general, I'm not a big fan of men. So many of them are so unlike me in so many ways. When I find one who is worthwhile I feel like I've discovered a treasure. I have many more female friends than male, but the male friends I have tend to be closer, on average, than the female. I still don't tend to see them as often as my women friends, but the ( Read more... )