(1) Just because you make a token effort, eg writing a proper intro message on a dating site rather than "hi ur hot x", nobody is obliged to respond to you.

(2) Don't ask a woman out on a date then deliberately not bring any money, suggest you go to the pub then assume she'll pay. (This works both ways - I know there are an awful lot of women out ( Read more... )

OK ladies, please put a cross in the box that describes you ( Read more... )

...or: Why I will never be a Big Name Fan, never mind an Actual Published AuthorThere seems to have been a lot of stuff kicking off lately around both the HP and Labyrinth fandoms and it's made me think a lot about, well, lots of things. Why I write, why anyone writes fanfic, what the hell is wrong with the world today, and how people take ( Read more... )

Christmas makes me incredibly tetchy. ( Big Seasonal Rant )