Murmurs of the Heart
So we're dating now, this girl and I.
And I like her. Honestly, I like her a lot, and though we are dating, we're not boyfriend/girlfriend just yet. But I feel like the question of whether or not we become boyfriend/girlfriend is soon to be on the table.
Right now, we're trying to figure out if we're hanging out too much and talking too much.
I don't want to rush this, especially not like last time. And this girl doesn't want to rush either. And we enjoy each other's company so much.
I don't know what to do. One friend of mine seems to think if we're going to be discussing how much time we spend together, then that makes us boyfriend/girlfriend. I'm not yet fully convinced of that, but I have little dating experience and I really don't want to mess this up.
I know I'm already personally committed to not pushing our relationship any farther physically. I'm not gonna put my arm around her, hold her hand, or try and hug her. I don't want to have physical elements enter into our relationship just yet. But emotionally.... where does one draw the line on emotional attachment? And how do you moderate it?
I like her. I like her a lot. And she likes me. She likes me a lot. Maybe even more than I like her. And I don't want to lose that. But I feel like I don't know what to do. I don't want to have to make a decision to only see her once or twice a week, but if that's what it takes, I'll rise to the occasion.
It's times like these I wish God would speak to me verbally, that I might just ask Him all these intimate questions about life and love and liking someone and get His responses quickly.
And I like her. Honestly, I like her a lot, and though we are dating, we're not boyfriend/girlfriend just yet. But I feel like the question of whether or not we become boyfriend/girlfriend is soon to be on the table.
Right now, we're trying to figure out if we're hanging out too much and talking too much.
I don't want to rush this, especially not like last time. And this girl doesn't want to rush either. And we enjoy each other's company so much.
I don't know what to do. One friend of mine seems to think if we're going to be discussing how much time we spend together, then that makes us boyfriend/girlfriend. I'm not yet fully convinced of that, but I have little dating experience and I really don't want to mess this up.
I know I'm already personally committed to not pushing our relationship any farther physically. I'm not gonna put my arm around her, hold her hand, or try and hug her. I don't want to have physical elements enter into our relationship just yet. But emotionally.... where does one draw the line on emotional attachment? And how do you moderate it?
I like her. I like her a lot. And she likes me. She likes me a lot. Maybe even more than I like her. And I don't want to lose that. But I feel like I don't know what to do. I don't want to have to make a decision to only see her once or twice a week, but if that's what it takes, I'll rise to the occasion.
It's times like these I wish God would speak to me verbally, that I might just ask Him all these intimate questions about life and love and liking someone and get His responses quickly.