Time to REALLY Rant!!!!
Ok so my day has sucked like there is NO freakin' tomorrow. My Boyfriend calls me up today sounding like someone had just run over his dog. When I ask him what is wrong he tells me that his MOTHER told him I look like I have Down Syndrome. No offence to those that have or know people with it. This is coming from his (insert word for female dog here) mother, a "R.N." She blames my being fat for looking like I have it. Then, get this, he calls me back later telling me the only reason it came up is because he is a "carrier" of it. Now my Boyfriend has none of the characteristics of DS, ADHD? Yeah. DS? No! I can tell you I know for a fact that I don't have it, because I have been tested for it. He on the other hand, I don't think he has. And I don't think his mother will let him because if he does, and finds out that he doesn't have it, he sees she is lying and she no longer has power over him. And to her, that is all she seems to want, is a little slave to control all her life so that she will never be alone. I can tell you now that I know this is just another scare tactic of her's to get him to leave me.
Right now though, I don't know if that is a bad thing. I mean he has treated me better than any other boyfriend I have ever had, but his mother has treated me so much worse than any other mother I have ever know. In fact many seem to love me and count me as one of their own. Even ex-boyfriend's parents didn't treat me this badly. EVER. If I seem a little pissed off it is because I really really am. I have my mother saying that I should tell him next time he calls me it's over and to thank his mother for it happening. Tell him it is her fault. And in a way it is, I have never, ever been so wrongly treated by anyone, even a guy that once dumped me for my best friend was better then this (another curse here). But then there is the fact that if I tell him that, his mother will be proven right (she thinks i will break his heart) and that is the last thing I want. If I try to put the blame on her, he will yell and rant at her only until she starts crying then he will be sucked in again under her thumb and whipped. Then she will place the blame on me and that will "prove her right." However, if I don't I will have to endure this unneeded stress from a woman that doesn't even KNOW ME, let alone my Chromosome Details. And I end up killing myself just so she can keep him wrapped.
I have never once wanted him wrapped around my little finger, I just want a little damn RESPECT! And right now, i'm not even getting it from him let alone her.
The question is now, what in the hell do I do?
Right now though, I don't know if that is a bad thing. I mean he has treated me better than any other boyfriend I have ever had, but his mother has treated me so much worse than any other mother I have ever know. In fact many seem to love me and count me as one of their own. Even ex-boyfriend's parents didn't treat me this badly. EVER. If I seem a little pissed off it is because I really really am. I have my mother saying that I should tell him next time he calls me it's over and to thank his mother for it happening. Tell him it is her fault. And in a way it is, I have never, ever been so wrongly treated by anyone, even a guy that once dumped me for my best friend was better then this (another curse here). But then there is the fact that if I tell him that, his mother will be proven right (she thinks i will break his heart) and that is the last thing I want. If I try to put the blame on her, he will yell and rant at her only until she starts crying then he will be sucked in again under her thumb and whipped. Then she will place the blame on me and that will "prove her right." However, if I don't I will have to endure this unneeded stress from a woman that doesn't even KNOW ME, let alone my Chromosome Details. And I end up killing myself just so she can keep him wrapped.
I have never once wanted him wrapped around my little finger, I just want a little damn RESPECT! And right now, i'm not even getting it from him let alone her.
The question is now, what in the hell do I do?