Catching up for last week still... but I wanted to write and thank everyone that came to Subspace. It was a very lively discussion and very thought provoking as well. I personally got a lot out of it since I've been dating someone new recently and feel that it's opened up a whole new possible space of exploration. I also recognize that I am more open to other non-kink aspects of relationships as a result of some of the self-learning I've done in the BDSM context.
One the more amusing recollections I have from this meeting was when
jaelynkitten pronounced me the anti-slut, since I've been happily dating Y the past few weeks. But I had to dash her hopes for breaking the slut chain by announcing that I had proclaimed my sluttiness to my new love, and offered him the right to offer me up and have the power to grant permission for me to play. If he would rather have this slut all to himself, then that is his right. But if given the permission to do so, I will unfold my slutty wings and take flight. :D