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So, I can't have sex - biggest reason? I'm INSANELY sensitive downstairs. I have to keep myself insanely clean for this very reason - just the slightest build-up and I itch like a mother-fucker and it drives me insane.
I have to use all natural laundry soap, unscented ... Or, itchy city. I have to do an extra rinse, and can ONLY wear white cotton underwear, because the dye in colored underwear ... cause itching.
I have to wear tampons because SOMEHOW every pad I have ever worn gave me a horrible, itching rash that made life miserable. Peroids? UTTER MISERY. I bleed through several super plus tampons, and then some... AND the freaking blood makes me itch like insanity, not to mention I always get rather dried out down there which makes it itch WORSE.
Condoms make me itch (Maybe it's the lube on them?) and I can't handle the lube if it is used, again, it causes horrible itching, no matter how much I clean or how often ... so I'm shit out of luck there.
When I was on BC, I'd do it bareback - but again! Days of itching and irritation were not worth the sex! (Granted, unprotected sex was ONLY done with those I KNEW they were disease free. Like, I'd make the guy go get an exam first and show me the results before I'd touch him; and ONLY when I was on Birth Control)
I know I am disease free and clean, I get exams regularly and they all come back clean and healthy... I'm just sensitive. And it sucks.
Anybody else have this problem? Any idea how to make sex actually good and not a huge source of days-long itching?