Cleansed

[tofusushi]

Howie and I are, surprisingly, fine. Getting sick left us too tired to fight so it stopped the cycle of verbal abuse. Time washed our hurts away so neither of us had any reason to defend ourselves or pick on the other person. Lately I've been reading on the topic of kind communication. The Biblical theory is that bitter words come from a

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[pepfin]

Janny, I say this with nothing but love in my heart... but have you gone insane?????????

[tofusushi]

Insane, why? I am open to all kinds of ideas to improve my happiness and improve my relationship with Howie. We actually signed up for a "Couples Communication Class" at Kaiser. We love each other, but sometimes we don't see eye to eye.

Am I crazy for staying with him despite difficulties, or crazy for taking advice from the Bible? Many religious texts hold worldy wisdom independent of the specific "religious" teachings.

=)

[pepfin]

Okay, listen to me. I am only going to say this one time because I have said it all before and I am not even doing to delve. Religion is a form of escapism and it is meant to comfort the weak. I respect you learning about ALL religions as information for your brain, I really don't give damn if you want to actually believe any of it because that is for you to decide. I can't stop you

[deleriumgirl]

Heya :) Added you to my friends list just so you know .

[tofusushi]

Okie, I added you too =)