I would apear.....
that I'll be getting my last name back early next year. Lane and I had the big talk yesterday about weather to get back together and try or not. And I guess I've known all along that I didn't want to do that. We both have WAY too much work to do on ourselves to do that .. it would be self defeating really. Not only do I not tust him to not fall into old patterns, I don't trust myself with that either.
Since we split in Jan. everyone one has become a happier person... the kids, Lane, Lisa and myself. I totaly see Lane and I getting along well in the future just as we do now. My parents pulled it off, why can't we?!
I have WAY too much to do yet, and as I told him yesterday it will take me longer just because I don't have the free time without kids and work like he does. Anyway, he had a feeling I'd say all that and went to file last week. So after talking for a bit, I signed the paperwork and he'll send it in. And 120 day from then, we will have a court date and I'll be a Kollath again.
Since we split in Jan. everyone one has become a happier person... the kids, Lane, Lisa and myself. I totaly see Lane and I getting along well in the future just as we do now. My parents pulled it off, why can't we?!
I have WAY too much to do yet, and as I told him yesterday it will take me longer just because I don't have the free time without kids and work like he does. Anyway, he had a feeling I'd say all that and went to file last week. So after talking for a bit, I signed the paperwork and he'll send it in. And 120 day from then, we will have a court date and I'll be a Kollath again.