Virgo Horoscope for Today
Virgo Horoscopes
(Aug 23 - Sep 22)
Saturday, Feb 20th, 2010 -- It's difficult to understand what motivates others today and your lack of comprehension can create stress between you and a friend or partner.
***Can you even imagine how it would be if the majority of people were able to articulate, "this is what I want and this is why I want it." ????? That's my first thought. My second (and third) thought(s) is(are): Do *I* clearly articulate what I want and why? Do I even *know* what I want and why? Guessing that if I (and everyone else) took the time to get clear on the answers to those two questions, life would go a lot more smoothly. I'd be able to give people a fighting chance of cooperating and I'd know more about what I need to do to get where I want to go. As an added bonus, once I can clearly tell someone what I want and why - they will clearly know if they are willing to cooperate or not and whether what they want (and why) corresponds in any way with what I want and why.***
However, the truth is that you might just want more clarity than someone else can offer.
***Any clarity really. A direct answer to a yes or no question perhaps? Being afraid to communicate makes no sense. You're afraid to say what you really want - why? Because you might not get it? If you don't ask the question, the answer is already no, so where is the risk??***
And although you claim to know what makes you tick, it's possible that another person's uncertainty puts you in touch with your own.
***It's definitely true that when someone is driving you absolutely crazy, you need to check in with yourself immediately (if not sooner) and find out if you do that thing that they are doing that makes you so nuts. 9 times out of 10 (4 out of 5 dentists recommend - yeah I know, I totally pulled the statistic out of my @$$) you - to some degree - do that thing. But all that aside, what are you uncertain about? What do you want to be more certain about? What do you *need* to be more certain about? You can't spend your days being annoyed with other people because you're not where you want to be if you don't even know where you want to be. Ya know??****
Seek your solution from within; don't expect anyone else to resolve your doubt.
***Not only does no one owe you mind reading - no one owes you *anything.* You are not entitled to have happiness handed to you on a platter. It's your job to create your own happiness - preferably not at the expense of someone else.***
(Aug 23 - Sep 22)
Saturday, Feb 20th, 2010 -- It's difficult to understand what motivates others today and your lack of comprehension can create stress between you and a friend or partner.
***Can you even imagine how it would be if the majority of people were able to articulate, "this is what I want and this is why I want it." ????? That's my first thought. My second (and third) thought(s) is(are): Do *I* clearly articulate what I want and why? Do I even *know* what I want and why? Guessing that if I (and everyone else) took the time to get clear on the answers to those two questions, life would go a lot more smoothly. I'd be able to give people a fighting chance of cooperating and I'd know more about what I need to do to get where I want to go. As an added bonus, once I can clearly tell someone what I want and why - they will clearly know if they are willing to cooperate or not and whether what they want (and why) corresponds in any way with what I want and why.***
However, the truth is that you might just want more clarity than someone else can offer.
***Any clarity really. A direct answer to a yes or no question perhaps? Being afraid to communicate makes no sense. You're afraid to say what you really want - why? Because you might not get it? If you don't ask the question, the answer is already no, so where is the risk??***
And although you claim to know what makes you tick, it's possible that another person's uncertainty puts you in touch with your own.
***It's definitely true that when someone is driving you absolutely crazy, you need to check in with yourself immediately (if not sooner) and find out if you do that thing that they are doing that makes you so nuts. 9 times out of 10 (4 out of 5 dentists recommend - yeah I know, I totally pulled the statistic out of my @$$) you - to some degree - do that thing. But all that aside, what are you uncertain about? What do you want to be more certain about? What do you *need* to be more certain about? You can't spend your days being annoyed with other people because you're not where you want to be if you don't even know where you want to be. Ya know??****
Seek your solution from within; don't expect anyone else to resolve your doubt.
***Not only does no one owe you mind reading - no one owes you *anything.* You are not entitled to have happiness handed to you on a platter. It's your job to create your own happiness - preferably not at the expense of someone else.***