I really do like the kid..
So Greg came over last night a little later than I expected, because I knew he didn't have homework or anything since it was Friday, and something was bothering him. He wouldn't tell me what though -- when I asked him initially he said, "just people and school". I become a bit distressed over the fact that he won't tell me what happened. So we continue on talking about other stuff even though I could tell that something was still on his mind. Eventually I ask him again what happened and he said he wasn't sure if he wanted to tell me because he didn't want it going around campus or anything. I proceeded to tell him that it would be perfectly fine if he did tell me because it's not like I go around talking gossip all time with many people. So he then started to tell me what happened earlier that evening. I guess his best friend Sara from back home went to Happy Hour at the Pace with her roommate Sarah and some other people -- one of them there was his fraternity brother Russ. They all wound up being completely trashed and Greg seemed to end up being the DD. To make a long story short, Sara stayed around Russ and then ended up going back to the frat house alone with him. Greg saw she was trashed and didn't know what she was doing and wanted to tell her to get away from him because he was only wanting a one night stand, but he never had the chance to get her aside to warn her. Needless to say, it did end up being exactly what Greg anticipated -- after Russ persuaded her for about 10 minutes.
Like Greg said, "I wouldn't care if it was going to be anything serious, but he's been doing that to every girl lately and I didn't want to see her getting involved with that."
I just love how he really cares and looks out for his friends like that.
Then after that, and after he vented about school, we got talking again about how he didn't tell me. He said he just didn't want me to have to listen to all of his venting -- and I told him that by him not telling me I just felt so disconnected. He understood and said that he would tell me that sort of thing from now on.
He's so understanding (doesn't always listen and remember everything perfectly, but he IS a guy)... and he's always making sure that I'm not mad (whether anything really bothers me or not). It's kind of funny how we'ver never really had a real fight yet. A couple conflicts as this one, but nothing much. It's just that there isn't really anything that has bothered me with him... he's understanding of me and I am to him -- and I'm never ONCE told that I may be too "needy". Ha. We seem to be about on the same temperment when it comes to that. We don't need to be around each other ALL THE TIME, but we still talk every day too... and fall asleep in each other's arms almost every night. :-)
*Sigh* I don't see how anybody could not like the guy.
Like Greg said, "I wouldn't care if it was going to be anything serious, but he's been doing that to every girl lately and I didn't want to see her getting involved with that."
I just love how he really cares and looks out for his friends like that.
Then after that, and after he vented about school, we got talking again about how he didn't tell me. He said he just didn't want me to have to listen to all of his venting -- and I told him that by him not telling me I just felt so disconnected. He understood and said that he would tell me that sort of thing from now on.
He's so understanding (doesn't always listen and remember everything perfectly, but he IS a guy)... and he's always making sure that I'm not mad (whether anything really bothers me or not). It's kind of funny how we'ver never really had a real fight yet. A couple conflicts as this one, but nothing much. It's just that there isn't really anything that has bothered me with him... he's understanding of me and I am to him -- and I'm never ONCE told that I may be too "needy". Ha. We seem to be about on the same temperment when it comes to that. We don't need to be around each other ALL THE TIME, but we still talk every day too... and fall asleep in each other's arms almost every night. :-)
*Sigh* I don't see how anybody could not like the guy.