Resolution to personal issues
why is it that i do not mind people calling me fag? i have been the lack luster person, the complete mellow of fag, but people still like to call me that. you know it is not even hurtful, and it is more playful. but i am trying to figure out why people feel the need. I have pleanty of other names to be called, Ryan, Rhino, Rye, bitch, slut, whore.. but for some reason i need to get to the bottom of the fag thing. i have a couple theories: 1, people test limits, by calling you fag now, that leaves room to call you something else any other time. 2, people want to make you lower (if fag is lower than being from WW) 3, people want you (me) to think that they are cool with it, they have taken off the trainning wheels of small words like "your gay" or "you like guys" or something like that. so it is like when a white person can be accepted with blacks, and the white person calling the blacks a "niger" (not trying to be offensive)
so in my conlusions, i guess it is not a bad thing, and you have to be comfortable with me to call me a fag.... if you feel any different, or have any other ideas let me know
ALSO: why is it that straight guys need to feel "loved" or "special" or feel like they are dating a gay guy? i have had multiple instances where i feel that people have hung out with me, or even to go as far as dated me, and these guys are straight?
Ryan
so in my conlusions, i guess it is not a bad thing, and you have to be comfortable with me to call me a fag.... if you feel any different, or have any other ideas let me know
ALSO: why is it that straight guys need to feel "loved" or "special" or feel like they are dating a gay guy? i have had multiple instances where i feel that people have hung out with me, or even to go as far as dated me, and these guys are straight?
Ryan