STOP IT!

[tanzi]

I'm sick of it, I'm finished, nothing's every going to change, why do you have to be like this, you hate my family, how do you think I felt for a year, I give up, just go back to your room and pout, I'M SICK OF YOU

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Aww... Yuki

[aria_venezia]

Daijobu!! You'll make it through this!! You are so brave and strong, I'd bet my money on you anyday.

Will you write back on the story? I was thinking thats the one we could write to... unless you dont want to do that one. You could vent through that too! ^____^

Come to Mpls!! i wanna see you.

~Love always, Sasami

^_^

[tanzi]

Thanks Sasami. Tim and I worked it out. Not as well as I had hope, and I know this won't be the last time we fight about this sort of thing, I guess we just have to meet each other half way!

Anyways, I would LOVE to comtinue on your story! I wasn't sure if that was the one you want me to continue on. Should we do it in your journal? Or threw e-mail?

^_^ love, Yuki

Sorry

[anonymous]

I'm sorry that yous guys are arguing, especially over seemingly trivial things. I'm sure Tim isn't having an easy time either its a lot to get used to and don't forget that he hasn't really seen his family in a year, so he should settle down shortly. Also hes a guy and were not good at comprehending what motivates girls to act in some ways. So to him all he sees is that your upset and its something he did - which will upset him too - which in turn upsets you more - which... its an endless, vicious cycle ending in hurt feelings and fueled by misunderstanding. Either of you can end it by staying calm and trying to explain what the difficulty is, but at least one of you has to stay calm and rational, it never works to tell the other to "calm down". I hope some of this will help in the future also it doesn't hurt to take a time out for a minute if need be.

Your Right... but

[tanzi]

I'm just so stupid.. I get angry... well Jelouse because he wants to spend every second with his family.. and I KNOW that he hasn't seen them in a year. But.. he never gave me the slightest hint that he had miss them this much! Believe me, I know these are trivial things... but, I tried to see it from his point of view, like you said in your letter.. and it seems like, his family is just walking all over him, and he just takes it! Like he wanted to go hang out with Charlie, but Charlie was busy hanging out with his best friend (who he see's all the time and has hung out with more than Tim) Well Tim was upset at first, but then he's like. "Well how abou tomorrow morning, or tomorrow for lunch, or tomorrow night! He seems so sad and lonly for his family, and they don't even seem to care! Then Charlie said that MAYBE they could hang out on Sunday and that he would call Tim. So tim hung up and he was upset and he told me that he wasn't going to hang out with Charlie on Sunday because he choose his other friend over Tim, then later that

Re: Your Right... but

[tanzi]

So Tim will be gone for a week and you need company? You'll just have to chat with us more then.

^_^

[tanzi]

Thank you.