I want to title this post as 'girly-talk' but I think that that's part of the cultural problem I'm talking about - talking about contraception should not be a 'girly-talk' subject. Also, there's the infections side of using/not-using condoms, but I don't have any experience of being in a situation where one partner knows that they have an infection ( Read more... )

If your boyfriend starts regularly using someone else's favourite moves in bed and stops doing the things you like, he's probably moving on. Or just thinking about 'someone else' at the time, which is Bad Form and leads to The Mediocre Sex.

Not that we were having all that much sex towards the end - just enough for me to notice that something was ( Read more... )

The meme: Pick up the nearest book to you. Turn to page 45. The first sentence describes your sex life in 2012.

The first book I saw was A Feast For Crows by George R R Martin, and the first sentance on page 45 is:

"...but his strength remained, and he kept his long axe sharp, as the bearded priests had taught him.

Sounds... promising?

She ( Read more... )

http://pervocracy.blogspot.com/2011/03/no-and-no-and-no-and-yes.html

When you feel safe with a person, you can have more fun with them. Doesn't just go for sex. :)

First, a couple of days ago, I saw this page of Something Positive. Then the (warning, will ruin your childhood) next page, and the next pageThen someone on my f-list made an LJ post about the same topic, about as surprised as the characters in that webcomic ( Read more... )

Feeling kinda lost and lonely right now. I meant to go into town today, but I caught up on sleep instead, and now haven't eaten any lunch and have a lecture at 16:15. Outside and people feel to be things I'm not sure I can deal with, but at the same time I want a hug. (I think the only solution to that would be if there was a Steve or similar here ( Read more... )

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