People Still Generally Suck.

Sep 13, 2011 18:06

From an email sent to my old friend. Jenn:

I am realizing that I don't really know how to be alone.

I have spent the day doing nothing but sitting in front of the computer - reading journals, reading blogs, listening to music, and accomplishing nothing of importance.  Thankfully, Steve made it to Boston without incident, though he 'did' have to wait ( Read more... )

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wyera September 14 2011, 01:18:29 UTC
Oh gods, am I #3? Because I don't want to suck! I have face to save or something..

Anyway, I'm glad you made an overture via LJ. I've only been living in London for a year and have been struggling to make new friends myself. So, feel free - go through my journal. I think I hid most of the crazy. ;) Ask me anything you'd like.

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streetstupid September 14 2011, 15:02:39 UTC
Haha. No, number 3 was a stay at home mom who didn't seem like she was interested in really meeting anyone, so why she posted to the board in the first place I don't understand!

Okay. What brought you to London? What do you spend your free time doing? (I'm asking you this so I can turn around and tell you how pretentious your interests are and how I am a better person than you for not being interested in those same bourgeois pastimes!) ;)

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wyera September 14 2011, 15:19:17 UTC
What brought me to London

Honestly? Hastily decided whim. LOL! I was finalizing my divorce (we filed it all our selves so it took a while to afford all of the stages) and was completely demoralized at my Toronto Law Firm Job. My new husband is awesome and supportive so when the TLFJ was making me more stressed and sick and the Ex was being enough of a douche to be nicknamed The Troll, I sold my house privately, quit my job and decided on London as my new starting point. The logical reasons were: i) it's closer to his family; ii) we both have friends in London (read we each have 1 couple we know there); iii) it was a big enough city to have law firm jobs; and iv) while it has a University, the University does not define the city or how it's used.

What do I do in my spare timeCurrently, go over to my friends' house, watch tv, eat dinner, drink beer, hot tub and play video games. When I have time, I'm an amateur photographer trying to be a pro. And other than that I read a metric ton. :) Oh, and I like to cook but it sucks ( ... )

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streetstupid September 14 2011, 17:14:22 UTC
Interesting!

Do you ever miss Toronto?

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wyera September 14 2011, 17:36:05 UTC
I miss Toronto at the oddest times - like 2am when I want something other than pizza delivered because I'm up late.. Or when I want some really fiiiine roti. Occasionallyl I miss the ease of transit and events, but not often. London's got way more green space and outdoor things to do (or at least they're easier to find). No one is really crammed in anywhere which can feel like it happens in Toronto. It's like London is more Kensington Market but with an upscale look. :)

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streetstupid September 14 2011, 17:42:24 UTC
*Nods*

Truth be told, I haven't really 'lived' in Toronto for 9 years, so I don't really know how much I would love being back there. I do know, however, that I miss the shopping.

Where in London are you? I'm in the North end.

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wyera September 14 2011, 17:54:34 UTC
I'm told I live in Old South on the east side but not in the "crack & ho" neighbourhood. :) I live behind Victoria Hospital.

Eh, depends on what you're shopping for in London. For instance, I'm plus sized so I'm screwed any which way in Canada - so I make runs over the border to Port Huron. :)

Food (meat, produce, herbs, teas) are all easy to find and reasonable locally (Heritage Line Herbs, McSmith Organic Farm, Oegema's Turkey, Thomas Brothers Produce).

Reitos de Leitos (sp?) is awesome. There's a Nova Era near the Western Fairgrounds (Mmm.. Portuguese Custard Tarts).

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streetstupid September 14 2011, 18:14:26 UTC
Yeah I'm pretty alright with the food shopping (thus far).

Now I'm hungry! ;)

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wyera September 14 2011, 18:31:09 UTC
It's not all that far to Nova Era. :) hehehe..

We could, if you'd like, meet for coffee/tea/something this weekend.

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streetstupid September 14 2011, 18:39:20 UTC
I can't this weekend.

I'm hiding out in Toronto at my in-laws (YAY!) to avoid a street party that's going on in my neighborhood (yes, hi, I am antisocial). But I have my reasons, also. Trust me. :)

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wyera September 14 2011, 18:41:29 UTC
heh.. No worries. I promise I'll be from some other time too!

LOL! I don't blame you for the street party thing though.. I'd hide. Especially if it was supposed to require my participation.

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streetstupid September 14 2011, 18:48:45 UTC
Seriously. We live on a very small street (think 9 'homes') which are all under the same "condo association". I still don't quite understand (we are renting). Anyway, they are having this street party and we don't want to go because A) we are the youngest of the bunch, B) we don't really want to get to know these people as we are not sticking around past next August when our lease expires, and, C) we don't like our immediate neighbours.

Also? Our TERRIBLE landlord(s) are going. BLEH NO THANK YOU!

So we told the organizer (condo president?!) that Steve had a work engagement in Toronto and that we were unable to attend.

SHH.

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wyera September 14 2011, 18:50:30 UTC
LOL! If only we'd met a week ago, you could have hid out at my place all weekend. hehe..

That blows. My townhouse isn't bad and seems to be run by a nice company and people. My neighbours are mostly decent (one guy is a jerk but that's it)

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streetstupid September 14 2011, 18:51:45 UTC
Oh, and who has a "summer street party" in mid-September?

Dur.

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wyera September 14 2011, 18:52:46 UTC
People who cottage in collingwood all summer?

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streetstupid September 14 2011, 18:58:10 UTC
These people never leave. They are stakes in the ground! ;)

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