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though i have never been close to my mom my dads death has forced us to communicate. There were time periods were we only emailed each other . There were time periods were there was physical fights and name callings . All of these things plagued our relationship until this last year, when my father needed us to cooperate.
now i worry about her , i use to never give her a second thought. I use to curse her existance and claimed i wouldnt go to her funeral. But she cries now all the time, my father was her only friend , she does nothing but sit inside the house and water the plants. Shes upset with hospice, they gave my father excellent care but now after his passing they hardly contact my mom. She's hurt , she never opens up to anyone ,never makes friends and she felt like they were the only ones she could connect to, they were there the entire time he died.
She ne ver thinks she will ever find companionship again either in man or a friend.
i dont know what to do .
now i worry about her , i use to never give her a second thought. I use to curse her existance and claimed i wouldnt go to her funeral. But she cries now all the time, my father was her only friend , she does nothing but sit inside the house and water the plants. Shes upset with hospice, they gave my father excellent care but now after his passing they hardly contact my mom. She's hurt , she never opens up to anyone ,never makes friends and she felt like they were the only ones she could connect to, they were there the entire time he died.
She ne ver thinks she will ever find companionship again either in man or a friend.
i dont know what to do .