A girl i wouldnt mind having
It's fun to think about it, what's the mate that i would like, and i just realized how hard it is to put it in words. I want a girl that doesn't mind working even if i'm working. This is so that there would be financial freedom for us - I despise being in debt, whether it is to the bank or to someone. Stemming from this i would like the charachter of the girl to be so that she lived in the current day - but was mindfull of the next day, as well as the year. I'll just list the things now:
-Long walks with trees around - i dont mean all trees, i mean just when you walk on a sidewalk near the road that there'd be a strip of green on the side or similar thing, someone who enjoys that.
-Someone who when there's nowhere to hurry, does not hurry, and by that i mean realize how much time something takes and set apart some time extra and just do it calmly - there's no need to hurry tomorrow won't come any sooner or later.
-Someone who can understand philosophical stuff i babble about
-Be able even within a heated fight - to step back see if it's a misconception on either part of the argument and be able to think rationaly and give reasons in the argument
-Not be caged by the public expectations and standard, however not going too much against them, because going too much against them on purpose means you care about what they thing too much (this is my opinion about people that spend 3 hours a day to get all their chains on the pants, the black eyeshadow, black eyelines, black nail polish, incredibly gelled hair - i cannot believe that someone would be comfortable in that - it's done for the people to look at - same reason that girls with too much makeup and 'pep' do it, and i would rather have someone dress the way THEY want, the way THEY thing is comfortable for them, sure they can spend like 20 minutes getting ready for usual day - that's all right
-hmm Romantic part, i want someone who would appreciate eating couple of grapes in the morning in bed, or come home to candle lights, or in reverse be able to make the cande lights.
- Honesty - while this may be an obvious and popular requirement, it's extremly important to me, I noticed in my life that even though it's kind of hard for me to make friends, or to even keep in touch with me, I have a really hard to shake trust in them, and they in me, but once that trust is shaken couple of times, it's hard as hell to get it back. I remember a friend i had in junior high, he lied a lot, although i was still friends with him but then there was a big thing which he told my mom - and there was no choice but him who told my mom, and he denied it day after day, then i asked my mom and she told me and he didnt deny it anymore, after that i just couldnt trust in any word he said, i met him couple of years later and I saw that he changed a lot, and i honestly believe that he is not the same way, i couldn't start being friends with him anyway because i just couldn't.
-Probably last thing i'd like is self - analysis. To be able to see and know why you do certain things, what caused them in your life, and realize that just because you know why you do the things you do, you may not be able to stop doing them just because of that. It takes a long time to get used to the ideas and change in charachter comes slow, and people always change for the sake of other people, that's what love is about, otherwise all the husbands and wifes would still hang out in bachlor's cribs all the time.
- Also probably the 2nd most important after honesty - being able to enjoy the high society way but being appreciative of what you have and be concious that whatever possessions there are, they are just that, posessions, people come first.
-Long walks with trees around - i dont mean all trees, i mean just when you walk on a sidewalk near the road that there'd be a strip of green on the side or similar thing, someone who enjoys that.
-Someone who when there's nowhere to hurry, does not hurry, and by that i mean realize how much time something takes and set apart some time extra and just do it calmly - there's no need to hurry tomorrow won't come any sooner or later.
-Someone who can understand philosophical stuff i babble about
-Be able even within a heated fight - to step back see if it's a misconception on either part of the argument and be able to think rationaly and give reasons in the argument
-Not be caged by the public expectations and standard, however not going too much against them, because going too much against them on purpose means you care about what they thing too much (this is my opinion about people that spend 3 hours a day to get all their chains on the pants, the black eyeshadow, black eyelines, black nail polish, incredibly gelled hair - i cannot believe that someone would be comfortable in that - it's done for the people to look at - same reason that girls with too much makeup and 'pep' do it, and i would rather have someone dress the way THEY want, the way THEY thing is comfortable for them, sure they can spend like 20 minutes getting ready for usual day - that's all right
-hmm Romantic part, i want someone who would appreciate eating couple of grapes in the morning in bed, or come home to candle lights, or in reverse be able to make the cande lights.
- Honesty - while this may be an obvious and popular requirement, it's extremly important to me, I noticed in my life that even though it's kind of hard for me to make friends, or to even keep in touch with me, I have a really hard to shake trust in them, and they in me, but once that trust is shaken couple of times, it's hard as hell to get it back. I remember a friend i had in junior high, he lied a lot, although i was still friends with him but then there was a big thing which he told my mom - and there was no choice but him who told my mom, and he denied it day after day, then i asked my mom and she told me and he didnt deny it anymore, after that i just couldnt trust in any word he said, i met him couple of years later and I saw that he changed a lot, and i honestly believe that he is not the same way, i couldn't start being friends with him anyway because i just couldn't.
-Probably last thing i'd like is self - analysis. To be able to see and know why you do certain things, what caused them in your life, and realize that just because you know why you do the things you do, you may not be able to stop doing them just because of that. It takes a long time to get used to the ideas and change in charachter comes slow, and people always change for the sake of other people, that's what love is about, otherwise all the husbands and wifes would still hang out in bachlor's cribs all the time.
- Also probably the 2nd most important after honesty - being able to enjoy the high society way but being appreciative of what you have and be concious that whatever possessions there are, they are just that, posessions, people come first.