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[squeakywheel]

On July 9, I turned 27. I got a text from David in the morning, asking if I wanted to do lunch and if there were any nice restaurants in close proximity of my office. Considering that he is the sommelier for four of the nicest restaurants in Prague, I responded no. We met anyway, and he brought me raspberries, kissed me on the lips when he saw

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[sayvandalay]

It seems that you have almost zero sense of self, and little to no self-worth. You must find yourself important, for no other reason than just that, and it's a journey that starts by taking small steps to learn about yourself.

You should not move in with David, no no no! That would be a huge mistake. He will never be happy with you; always will find something wrong with you and you will forever be trying to measure up.

No no no. This is not good.

[squeakywheel]

I wonder if I give off an unbalanced view of who I am because I tend to only write about my relationships.

If I wrote about other things, I may come off as unlucky in love but otherwise fine. Maybe...?

[sayvandalay]

It's possible, but I doubt it, because ultimately anyone who is choosing between a man who will only be with you if you let him sleep with other women, and a man who will only be with you if you lose yet MORE WEIGHT than you've already lost, is someone who does not value herself enough to see how ridiculous that is

[squeakywheel]

Ok, wow. I see your point.

[clight]

I totally needed to hear this, too. Thank you. :)