I have been very neutral about this. Mostly because I have relationships with people involved on all sides. And the last thing I want to do is hurt any of them
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I labelled it with ' I honestly couldn't care less what other people do and that doesn't concern me' and forgot about it aaaaages ago, along with all the other stuff idc about. *siiiigh*
ETA: if some people on your flist were offended by oceanaldi, to be quite frank, I'm not convinced an entry like this is going to appease them.
Oic your edit. Yes I know that. But tbh, I just needed to get this out, you know? Partly for my sanity and also so that I know that I said it. So that other people I care about won't end up thinking that the only reason I never said anything was because it was offensive in the first place, which it never was.
Yes, I understand, but the people who are already dead set on the idea that "oceanaldi is the devil's lair", will probably feel even more antagonised by what you said, they might even find it slightly condescending (I'm not saying that you were being condescending, just that to some people it might seem that way
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I'm not sure anymore how I discovered oceanaldi, I clicked on someone's profile, and saw it there I think. So I clicked on Oceanaldi, saw what it was, and didn't want to crash anybody's party there... It felt like I was unwanted anyways. So I'm not surprised others felt the same way. *shrugs*
But I also didn't think it was a "bitching community". Just an exclusively Oceanites/Rambaldi Party ...
I labelled it with '
I honestly couldn't care less what other people do and that doesn't concern me' and forgot about it aaaaages ago, along with all the other stuff idc about.
*siiiigh*
ETA: if some people on your flist were offended by oceanaldi, to be quite frank, I'm not convinced an entry like this is going to appease them.
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On other news, hello I love you.
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Yes I know that. But tbh, I just needed to get this out, you know? Partly for my sanity and also so that I know that I said it. So that other people I care about won't end up thinking that the only reason I never said anything was because it was offensive in the first place, which it never was.
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I'm not sure anymore how I discovered oceanaldi, I clicked on someone's profile, and saw it there I think.
So I clicked on Oceanaldi, saw what it was, and didn't want to crash anybody's party there...
It felt like I was unwanted anyways.
So I'm not surprised others felt the same way. *shrugs*
But I also didn't think it was a "bitching community".
Just an exclusively Oceanites/Rambaldi Party ...
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