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I really hate removing people from my flist. It makes my stomach twist up in knots to think of someone getting that "slutbamwalla has removed you from their friends list" email. Even though I am only removing people who do not have me friended in return (and in some cases, don't especially like me anymore), I still don't like the thought of reminding them of my existence in any way.
The path of least resistance would be to just leave them on my list and ignore it, but then, for those who don't like me, I also get that stomach knotting when I scroll past their posts or see their names on my list.
I suppose I just need to... is there a non-misogynistic way to say "grow a pair"? Whatever it is, that's what I need to do, I guess.
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(As an aside, if you do have me friended and you get a removal email, it's because I'm following you on DW, and you crosspost everything.)
The path of least resistance would be to just leave them on my list and ignore it, but then, for those who don't like me, I also get that stomach knotting when I scroll past their posts or see their names on my list.
I suppose I just need to... is there a non-misogynistic way to say "grow a pair"? Whatever it is, that's what I need to do, I guess.
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(As an aside, if you do have me friended and you get a removal email, it's because I'm following you on DW, and you crosspost everything.)