Imagination is the only sweet thing left to our hearts.
I do not understand how girls- well let us say people, to be fair- can just one day decide that they do not care to have someone in their life in any significant way or just outright completly not in it. It's sad, I think, that someone can just write others off out of their lives. Now I have read recently a work on some of the different genders' learning and playing methods when they are young. It did say that girls' play often stressed the delicate maneuvering in and out of relationships (meaning friendships). It talked of how young girls will move from close friendship to close friendship, treating each more of as a temporary alliance rather than a real person. This will lead girls to be more adept at going through the motions of ending and beginning a relationship, as far as their emotions go.
another point I wish to bring up here, are the things we do to let someone know how much we value them, or how much we WANT them to THINK we value them. The things I'm talking about are very much like the rules we have in giving christmas gifts. the one person who knows exactly what Im talking about who is in my Sociology class may or may not read this (Julia), though I hope she doesn't assume that I'm directing this specifically at her. What I want to know is why can't they just tell you, it has to be done in an unspoken manner. I hate it.
This is not about anyone in particular so don't think of yourself that highly in my life (I'm taking after girls in that manner.) but is due to a number of people, who recently, after a period of showing interest in being friends, completly wrote me off as far as I can tell (I'm not quite sure as I do not wish to bother them trying to find out if that is, in fact, the case).
The point? I'm really just kind of sick of insincere people who are too fickle to actually care about someone else enough to actually make a real effort at being a "friend". And if you don't care to be friends, why can't you just say that rather than pretending the whole thing just doesn't exist. FUCK!!!
ok so this is my bi-weekly rant. The moral of the story? Care about the people who consider you a friend, and hopefully you'll come to consider them a friend also.
My words fall far short of actually saying exactly what I want to or feel. What I mean is hidden behind the veil of no one ever understanding one another. You'll never know your wife or husband of 60 years, another veil there for them and for you. we are all condemed to play tennis (thanks Josh) with ourselves.
another point I wish to bring up here, are the things we do to let someone know how much we value them, or how much we WANT them to THINK we value them. The things I'm talking about are very much like the rules we have in giving christmas gifts. the one person who knows exactly what Im talking about who is in my Sociology class may or may not read this (Julia), though I hope she doesn't assume that I'm directing this specifically at her. What I want to know is why can't they just tell you, it has to be done in an unspoken manner. I hate it.
This is not about anyone in particular so don't think of yourself that highly in my life (I'm taking after girls in that manner.) but is due to a number of people, who recently, after a period of showing interest in being friends, completly wrote me off as far as I can tell (I'm not quite sure as I do not wish to bother them trying to find out if that is, in fact, the case).
The point? I'm really just kind of sick of insincere people who are too fickle to actually care about someone else enough to actually make a real effort at being a "friend". And if you don't care to be friends, why can't you just say that rather than pretending the whole thing just doesn't exist. FUCK!!!
ok so this is my bi-weekly rant. The moral of the story? Care about the people who consider you a friend, and hopefully you'll come to consider them a friend also.
My words fall far short of actually saying exactly what I want to or feel. What I mean is hidden behind the veil of no one ever understanding one another. You'll never know your wife or husband of 60 years, another veil there for them and for you. we are all condemed to play tennis (thanks Josh) with ourselves.