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Nov 02, 2006 22:13

People change, just as the time, and people don't realize that every time you blink, a life is either beginning or ending. Time is precious. Live life to the fullest because if not, you'll always live in regrets. Why should you hold back on anything? Are you too afraid to let people know how you feel? Why not be honest with yourself and others? Don't be scared to tell the truth, no matter what the consequence is, because you never know, things might work out for the best in the end, and if not, well at least you told them the truth. It might be hard but i know it feels great when you finally do it. You feel the pressure alleciate from your chest and you no longer think about it constantly.

I propose an idea: Let's be honest with eachother. Let us all know how we feel about ourselves and others. No one can judge, we all have our faults. I realized that no one is completely honest with anyone. Not even your best friend. Your best friend might seem like they're always there for you when you need them, but I can guarantee you that there's been an incident that they have said something about you behind your back. Either that, or when someone else is talking about you, they don't always side with you. I'm not going to lie, there have been a few instances when I've said a remark about a friend behind their back, but just know, I always feel extremely guilty about it and I either tell them somehow or make it up to them. Don't you feel crappy when you say something about a good friend?

That's why I propose another idea: Let's stop saying hurtful things behind people's backs. You wouldn't like them to say mean stuff about you, so why be the hypocrite and do it to them? My friends talk so much crap about a girl that goes to our school. They don't even know her and I bet she's a pretty cool person if they got to know her, but they don't want to get to know her because they've got this whole idea of how she's going to be, just because of the way she looks and dresses. I've said mean things about people that I don't even know and I feel bad because there have been times when the person I say mean things about ends up being a friend of mine later on in life or they do something nice to me one day. I'm no 'little miss perfect' but I'm trying to change for the better and learn from my mistakes.

Ever heard of the saying, "Can't we all just get along?" Why can't we? Let's put all our differences aside and be happy again. Seriously, it sucks to feel left out and abandoned. To feel ignored and unloved. Just know, there's always someone out there feeling the same way. If you know of a person feeling down, go ask what's wrong. Try to make them feel better. Keep them company. Maybe they just need someone to sit there and listen. Don't talk crap like "WTF, what's wrong with her now? She's been in a bitchy mood lately," blah blah. Trust me, people that are there to comfort you are your true friends. You will soon realize who your true friends are...

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JaninA
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