Not "I've changed"--I changed. Not picking up phone calls, deleting texts, not checking Facebook more than once a week, hitting delete when the message starts out with sobbing tears (but still responding with "I love you" once it subsided at the end of the day), being and feeling what some would call shallow/superficial and others would call trendy ( Read more... )

Controlling causes leads to statistical probabilities of outcomes. The more you can control, the higher probability of your outcome or effect. The problem is in trying to manage all the causes in human interaction. To be an effective manager of causes, the fewer causes one has to manage the greater one's ability is to manage them. When trying to ( Read more... )