Life is pretty damn` scary, but I noticed that everyone just pretends they`re not scared. Admitting that you are scared is a brave thing in itself. The things you`re scared of are things I do believe everyone is sacred of to some degree or other.
Yes it is safe, living at home, but you`ll have to get your own place sometime. Why not start now? What`s the worst that could happen? You could screw up and move back in with your dad. You wouldn`t have lost anything and would have gained life experience that`ll allow you to do better next time around.
It`ll be allright. Just go for it and pretend you`re not scared, like the rest of us do...
Op jezelf wonen is eng, vooral in het begin. En zelfs nu, na meer dan een jaar op mezelf voel ik me soms ontzettend alleen. Maar het hoort er allemaal bij, en je leert ervan en groeit erdoor. Ik zou zowiezo niet helemaal alleen gaan wonen eerst, maar het met een huisgenoot proberen, dat doe ik ook. En het is nog gezellig ook! Lieverd, ik hoop dat alles goed met je gaat. Dikke kus.
Op jezelf gaan wonen is best eng. Dan zit je daar, alleen in een grote stad met dingen als rekeningen, belastingen en huur... Het is goed dat je verlangt naar een plekje voor jezelf. Dat betekent dat je er aan toe bent
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Being scared is human. We're social critters, we don't like being (really) alone. Also, we may find change exciting, but at the heart of it, we find it scary.
That's why my dream would be to find a place big enough to share with some friends - a place of your own, but with people around to have fun with, to share a meal with, to hang out with - but with the possibility of just retreating into your own little space as well. I don't know that I'd ever want to live with a romantic partner (too close all the time), but living with friends would be the ideal solution.
Alleen zijn is iets dat je moet leren. Zelfs ik, die over het algemeen niet bekend sta om mijn lange termijns-mensentollerantie heb er moeite mee gehad. Maar het is ook iets dat went, en ik heb dierbare herinneringen aan de periodes dat ik helemaal alleen heb gewoond. Je hebt zoveel vrijheid en je leert er veel van. Je leert onder andere jezelf veel beter kennen
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Yes it is safe, living at home, but you`ll have to get your own place sometime. Why not start now? What`s the worst that could happen? You could screw up and move back in with your dad. You wouldn`t have lost anything and would have gained life experience that`ll allow you to do better next time around.
It`ll be allright. Just go for it and pretend you`re not scared, like the rest of us do...
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Lieverd, ik hoop dat alles goed met je gaat.
Dikke kus.
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That's why my dream would be to find a place big enough to share with some friends - a place of your own, but with people around to have fun with, to share a meal with, to hang out with - but with the possibility of just retreating into your own little space as well. I don't know that I'd ever want to live with a romantic partner (too close all the time), but living with friends would be the ideal solution.
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