When you smell dog shit, look first at your own shoes.

Yep. You know, my shoes aren't all that clean. It's so easy to get wrapped up in our own interpretations of events and what makes us feel good. I like to think I put my wife first; her needs, her wants, her desires. I still do. I believe that with all my heart, but I have to be honest and look ( Read more... )

The past few days have been a little weird. I'm normally a very open and fun guy around the house. However, the issues with physical intimacy have really bothered me and I'm not exactly trying to hide them. I'm not lashing out or being a dick, but if you know me, you know something is up. We still haven't really spoken about issues, although I've ( Read more... )

I'm so fucking excited right now. This weekend my wife and I did some shopping on-line for some toys! Yeah, I was very exited. I mentioned something to her about the fact that she had "mentioned" wanting a buttplug. I felt it was a safe time since we had been drinking and she was feeling pretty good. We found what I hope to be a decent plug as well ( Read more... )

Sex with my wife is almost always good. Whether it's strait forward, basic sex, or whether there's more imagination involved, it tends to be good. I certainly don't have complaints there. It has been an interesting last few months though as after 18 years of being together, in some ways we are finally talking about sex. I guess it's always been ( Read more... )