It turns out that my roommate and I are interested in finding a church which has single people our age. We both go to different churches that are low in these types of people. My main problem was that though I like my church and the friends that I've made there... it's a small church and all the guys within reasonable marrying age are married
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Thanks again for your thoughts!
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For the other, I sympathize--I used to have a close friend who got all the attention . . . until I realized that those guys were all jerks. Every single one. They were all about appearances--attraction without substance, and poor A couldn't tell the difference because she'd grown up hearing flattery, so it was her natural state.
It took longer for me to meet fellows but the ones who looked past her--who conversed instead of stared--were worth waiting for. (The fellow I eventually married thought A nice, but kind of boring.)
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Your nutcracker theft coming back to haunt you? ;-)
Another word in re your Hot!Roommate getting chatted up: Boys are shy sometimes, particularly the interesting ones (if I do say so myself). You seem like you prefer to have the guy make the move, but don't be afraid to talk to them, particularly if they're standing there looking awkward!
Step 2 is dealing with clueless guys (apply two-by-four firmly to subject's cranium and advise him in set terms to ask you out), but that's advanced material and will have to wait for later.
Or you can just throw rocks at boys until you feel better about the fact that we're all dim and easily distracted.
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