A dilemma of selfish proportions
It turns out that my roommate and I are interested in finding a church which has single people our age. We both go to different churches that are low in these types of people. My main problem was that though I like my church and the friends that I've made there... it's a small church and all the guys within reasonable marrying age are married.
Anyhoo.... I've literally within the past 20 minutes discovered a solution. There's a Vineyard church with an evening service designed specifically for our age group. WOOOT! I can still go to my small, all-married-people church and attend another church with more possibilities in the single arena.
Problem: My roommate is one of those rare, gorgeous people who regularly gets propositioned by strangers. No, serioiusly. We actually were talking about this last night and she related a story in which a gentleman with a wedding ring interrupted a conversation she was having with a friend at Starbucks to get her to go out with him--a random stranger she'd never met!
In her presence, I'm usually ignored. Normally, I find this amusing, but... well, you can see where I'm going with this. I'm afraid that if we go together, it's her that's going to get all the attention... because that's what usually happens. And also... well, I can't really be entirely myself around her as much as I would like to. It's a long story.
I know that this is horrible and selfish and unchristian, and I suppose I didn't post this with any expectation of getting justification for not taking her... bah. I know I'll end up taking her...
When did my life start being a drama rama?
Anyhoo.... I've literally within the past 20 minutes discovered a solution. There's a Vineyard church with an evening service designed specifically for our age group. WOOOT! I can still go to my small, all-married-people church and attend another church with more possibilities in the single arena.
Problem: My roommate is one of those rare, gorgeous people who regularly gets propositioned by strangers. No, serioiusly. We actually were talking about this last night and she related a story in which a gentleman with a wedding ring interrupted a conversation she was having with a friend at Starbucks to get her to go out with him--a random stranger she'd never met!
In her presence, I'm usually ignored. Normally, I find this amusing, but... well, you can see where I'm going with this. I'm afraid that if we go together, it's her that's going to get all the attention... because that's what usually happens. And also... well, I can't really be entirely myself around her as much as I would like to. It's a long story.
I know that this is horrible and selfish and unchristian, and I suppose I didn't post this with any expectation of getting justification for not taking her... bah. I know I'll end up taking her...
When did my life start being a drama rama?