from tartenshell, for tartenshell.

[roguewords]

I just...

there are no words for this.

CHILDREN ARE NOT BAD!!!!!!!

They are active, they need guidance, but my goddess, they are LEARNING how to behave. They can't learn that if they aren't shown. Children learn by example.

And someone who is depressed???????

They need help, not a fucking boot camp.

...

*feels sick*

Taken from the ISAC

Comments

[allpurposegirl]

OMG I cant even imagine.

[ashleyfanfic]

I'm going to say this and I hope it doesn't offend

[roguewords]

Oh absolutely not. I agree with you!

My parents spanked us. I think in moderation that it's a perfectly acceptable form of punishment. But you are right, you have to tell the child why you're doing it. Explain what the behavior was that they did wrong and how to correct it. And pop their butts.

My mother said pretty much the same thing -- they want someone else to be the parent.

[roguewords]

I guess I'm also thinking, I get what you're saying about no bad children and they just need an example, but what happens when they grow up without ever having that example set? What happens when they live an entire life without consequences? You've got a bad adult.At some point yes you have a bad adult. But even then I don't see when it's appropriate to just give up on somebody. And I also think that at some point you just have to tell someone to shut up and grow up