Sometimes the opposite advice is just as good.

I think one of my biggest mistakes was that I wanted so much control over my life--over myself--that I made up rules so that when I followed them I could feel proud of myself. It was like a religion. Moral standards. I will not drink. I will not have sex. I will not kiss friends. It wasn't to be better than everyone else, it was to be the best Me I ( Read more... )