I think I've finally realized what 'dating' is.

'Making regular, semi-ritualized appointments to have sex'.

...sounds mean, but when I think about it really hard, that's all I can come up with. Wait, how is it mean? It doesn't say anything about romance, or being friends. You can have (unplanned) sex with friends, sure. I think I like this ( Read more... )

A guy tried to pick me up today. 'Flustered' is the best word I can use ( Read more... )

It kind of freaked me out.

I had a dream last week about a co-worker of mine. I'll admit, he's super cute, I like looking at him. He's also kinda funny and is good with the kids. I guess you could call it a [squish] but...eh, maybe it is? I don't pretend to think that I'm friend material to anyone at work, though ( Read more... )

Might as well clarify:

Along with the "behavior =/= identity" thing I was talking about this afternoon? I hope no one thinks I was trying to give homophobic dudes that sleep with guys an excuse to still call themselves straight and continue bashing on gay guys. No, not at all. I think that's a separate "Don't Be An Asshole, You Asshole" issue.

This was originally a tumblr post, but it started to feel like more of an LJ post. So I moved it over here. It's all in regards to this picture:


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