Mar 20, 2013 22:23
The one positive thing that the Steubenville rape story did was convince hard cases like me that there really is an increasing problem with rape culture.
I'm not calling myself a 'hard case' because I'm close-minded or mysogynistic; I've just been an extreme skeptic. I spent a good part of the 1980s volunteering and doing odd jobs for organizations like Women Against Rape and the local Domestic Abuse Council. I always thought that experience made me something of an authority on the topic. And I thought we were going in the right direction. Things did seem to be getting slowly better. So when I saw stories about growing rape culture peppering the internet, I thought, "Hey, it's great that awareness is growing, but you guys don't know what it was like back in the day." I was extremely skeptical about anything getting worse.
I was wrong. After three decades of what I thought was improvement, the major news networks lamented that raping may have cost some rapists their their football careers. That was a complete non-sequitir in what I had assumed was our country's baseline moral narrative. I can't remember anything like that happening before, and I couldn't imagine that story breaking back in the Reagan years. The media hinted at a whole new moral direction, and it is a backwards direction.
Guys have taken advantage of drunk girls before; that's not new. The media going to bat for them - that's the new part. Hopefully, the outrage over this will be a big splash of cold water for the media, and will wake them up from whatever the hell they were thinking. But I don't know about the rest of the country, and I'm worried about what moral pits may be hidden in our culture.