Jan 03, 2007 22:46
I have come to realize that people who judge others have things they are jealous about in that person. I'm learning that when someone says something mean to me, I don't excuse it really, but I understand that they could be jealous of me in some way.
I think everyone feels this way sometimes. Think back to the last mean thing you said about someone else.... Did you say it out of revenge, anger, hurt, frustration, or did you say it because you were jealous of that person for that moment?
I think it comes does to do unto others and you would have them do unto you. You may get jealous because of something someone has that you want, but don't say evil things about them because you want to be like them.
Take heart to what you are saying about people and why. Because even though you may think it isn't hurtful, if it's mean or nasty, than it is.
Love people for who they are, not who you want them to be, or who you want them to become, or who you wish they weren't. Just love them, accept them, and talk no evil about them. In the end you are the one who is growing and developing, and becoming a better deep hearted person.