manipulation...

[paulo_san]

women and men are made differently.

we are the bad guys.  we lie and cheat.  we're the ones that change and take things for granted.  then we cheat a little more.  we're the ones who initiate the breakup.  we're the ones who get over them faster.  we're the ones who get back in the game.  We tell stories to make you feel good.  We tell lies to make

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[nikosmints]

...yes there are the jerks who lie and cheat. But those guys have one common problem, "Self Esteem" issues. They need to reassure themselves that they still have "It" by cheating and risking a good relationship. Personally speaking I'm not gonna go into a relationship thinking that a guy might cheat on me and that I need to be aware, and or even take the risk. I know there's no guarantee, but if I start thinking like this, then I feel jaded about love and finding the one--call me optimistic. One last thing I want to add and its been itching me is to you Paulo and Avik..multiple girlfriends and trying to hook up with a girl you don't even care for....I mean come on...how old are you guys?? This is all high school shit....and it goes back to self esteem issues...sorry, I love you guys and I hope you guys don't take this to heart, I just wanted to put my two scents in. Remember what goes around comes around...

[pammee80]

*clapping*

[paulo_san]

thats ok Nicole. Everyone has self-esteem issues...yes, even you

[pammee80]

you and nicole really should get back together.

[nikosmints]

I have self esteem issues...I'll admitt and I'm sure you know some of them.
Maybe its easier for guys to cheat,lie and deceat...but not worth bragging about on LJ. It doesn't make you look like the good person, does it? Maybe its the way you guys are telling your encounters on LJ that has caught me off guard. I know you guys don't mean to harm the girls...but I feel like this is a game to you guys and I know it is, but remember that if a girl played that game with you and you were the one that had the feelings, I'm sure you wouldn't like it. Final thought, "Just be carefull". love, nicole :-)

!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[cleverbitch]

---that kind of thinking is exactly what amateur predators look for...the ladies who have been burned in the past carry the lesson forever thus making them harder to prey on...its called LEARNING.

LOL THO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

or the burned ladies (ie: yours truly) will fall a little bit, or a lot.. all the while, having one foot out.. so as to steady the table of evidence she is carefully cultivating so that yo' cheating ass will be FOUND!!! heheh..

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YES it's BEEN years!!!! Five to be exact. read my LJ.. other than the rent.. that's what's been GOING ON. LOL