manipulation...
women and men are made differently.
we are the bad guys. we lie and cheat. we're the ones that change and take things for granted. then we cheat a little more. we're the ones who initiate the breakup. we're the ones who get over them faster. we're the ones who get back in the game. We tell stories to make you feel good. We tell lies to make ( Read more... )
This kind of stuff never happened to me in highschool...so if this kind of behaviour was accepted then, consider this a late bloom from yours truly.
you: "I'm not gonna go into a relationship thinking that a guy might cheat on me and that I need to be aware, and or even take the risk. I know there's no guarantee, but if I start thinking like this, then I feel jaded about love and finding the one" ---that kind of thinking is exactly what amateur predators look for...the ladies who have been burned in the past carry the lesson forever thus making them harder to prey on...its called LEARNING.
I have HUGE self-esteem issues...and this is one way I deal with it. How do you deal with yours?
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on a "I was just thinking" note...why do I get the nagging suspicion that the only reason Avik and I are getting such negative feedback on such issues is because none of you guys are playing the game right now?
Hypothetical:
I can TOTALLY see Nicole, Pamela, and M being in a situation where more than one guy is involved...and you know what I see in that picture? I see lots of giggling, lots of wine and great conversation about "if guys can do it, so can we...", I hear "girl power" and "independence" and "strong" and "having fun"........ALL FUCKIN POSITIVE SHIT.
SO...
I declare that none of you are allowed to be with more than one guy at a time. none of you are allowed to date. and ALL of you must find loving, caring, mature, strong and trusting relationships and live happily ever after with the VERY NEXT person you are even remotely interested in.
if you are willing to abide by those terms...then I will stop what Im doing immediately. until then...may I suggest that you immediately move from your glass house if the urge to throw stones becomes too great to control.
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with every seering reply comes the standard smiley :)
and some warm words: Nicole, you know I love you, too.
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after thought:
I love hearing from you guys....negative comments are usually more fun than positive ones so Im operating under the assumption that no LJ comment will ever do any damage on friendships as has always been the case.
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Maybe its easier for guys to cheat,lie and deceat...but not worth bragging about on LJ. It doesn't make you look like the good person, does it? Maybe its the way you guys are telling your encounters on LJ that has caught me off guard. I know you guys don't mean to harm the girls...but I feel like this is a game to you guys and I know it is, but remember that if a girl played that game with you and you were the one that had the feelings, I'm sure you wouldn't like it. Final thought, "Just be carefull". love, nicole :-)
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LOL THO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
or the burned ladies (ie: yours truly) will fall a little bit, or a lot.. all the while, having one foot out.. so as to steady the table of evidence she is carefully cultivating so that yo' cheating ass will be FOUND!!! heheh..
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YES it's BEEN years!!!! Five to be exact. read my LJ.. other than the rent.. that's what's been GOING ON. LOL
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