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I'm sorry if my lack of updating has really bothered anyone, though I hope and believe it hasn't. For the record, I've wanted to update several times over the past couple of months, but my sense of fairness regarding LJ has stopped me. You all know that sometimes I can hardly find the time to go online at all, right? I first try to take care of

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[mewgirl]

I don't get how updating your LJ without reading others' is unfair, though I get the part about only reading/commenting on some. You update your LJ (not you; people in general) when there's been events in your life; you read others' when you ahve the time and mind frame to do so; usually with the exception of your closest friend(')(s)('). To be honest I actually prefer shorter, more frequent entires in a person journal because 1) it's a lot to read when you update infrequently and 2) the person, or at least you, will be factuially and vaguely telling events in your lie, so you ("I") cannot concentrate on the person's feelings when they have them. Of course it's your LJ and you can do whatever you want; I'm not trying to tell you how to write it or suggesting you do so or anything; it was in response to how you believe it is unfair to update your own journal without reading others'. I don't know how others feel, but I don't believe this is true and would actually prefer it if you didn't do that

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Well, I only feel people would think me unfair for updating, and then not commenting. I don't hold that against anyone else but myself

[ren_uchiha]

I understand that Todd. Don't feel too much pressure on having to respond to everyone's posts, though. I had a Friends Cut not long ago, and I knew that you don't come online that much and I felt that if I cut you off, that would be unfair as I know that when you do come online you spend such time and effort finding out all the goings on you've missed. I'd never cut you even if you *never* replied to any of my posts. I know you read the ones you can and that's what counts

[trickery]

...yeah...you didn't reply to stay on a friends cut entry I did a few weeks ago...

...and, you have no right to talk about me when I normally wouldn't read your LJ. That's called backtalking. I don't read the journals of people not on my friends list unless I'm told I should...

Thanks. Don't assume things, please? You just earned yourself a never being added back. I do not like people talking about me when I normally will not see it. If you wanted to talk, you should've sent an e-mail, mm'kay?

...I don't mind if you're not able to get on much, I just appreciate being told so...so that I can account for that when I try to see who actually cares about my life...

[trickery]

...uh...ignore the not being readded comment...I don't know how that got in there...O_o;

[trickery]

Another thing, it was not an angst spree! It was a couple of days and only a few posts, and it was triggered more by not having anyone to talk to for a week!

...I was not even asking for pity, I was venting!

...gosh...

UGH.

[trickery]

Okay, I'm a little pissed off here. This is Lisa. Had not Chris made me aware of this, I wouldn't have seen it...but I'm a little upset at Beth's reactions. Granted, she is going through hard times, but I find the insensitivity here appalling

[hurricane_chris]

I haven't been bothered by your lack of posts. Actually, I'm not even sure if you've friended me back. *is too lazy to go check*

I'm looking forward to meeting you guys at Kate's place. However, I discussed with Kate about transportation, and since I have a car of my own, I can help out.

Er, do you have Beth's e-mail address? If not, I can provide it to you.

[emo_wicca]

Todd! You live....I was beginning to wonder! See your posts makes my day better! Notice my icon *points* Aren't we adorable?

[emo_wicca]

Seeing* (some things make you feel so dumb!)