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If you're asking a favor from someone, YOU are the one who should adjust, NOT the person whom you're asking a favor from.
Don't commit to something you know you won't be able to fulfill, and when you choose to commit to something, learn to prioritize your responsibilities.
Don't go to a place and spend a lot if you know you won't have money the next day.
Don't go online shopping when you know you have lots of things you need to buy.
Don't order stuff if you know you won't be able to pay on time, specially when you're going to use someone else's money to pay for you first.
Most importantly, Don't drag people down because of your lack of accountability and commitment.
If you know me and we've talked for quite some time, and we agreed on some stuff (like me paying for you as long as you pay me in a specific date), then that's fine. I even have some fandom friends whom I bought stuff for and they're going to pay me after I shipped the items to them. It's fine with me, so as long as they really pay on the time they say they will.
I am a good negotiator. I tend to adjust so much even though I am the one being compromised, but if I've given enough adjustments and I already compromised a lot of things yet you still haven't made ANY effort to do your responsibility, then I am not going to tolerate it.
Sometimes, I hate being extra kind because people tend to abuse my kindness.
If you don't know me and you aren't my friend, you don't have ANY right to make me feel violated.
If you just knew me in real life, you wouldn't even dare do that. TRUST ME.
Won't be putting this under a cut.
Don't commit to something you know you won't be able to fulfill, and when you choose to commit to something, learn to prioritize your responsibilities.
Don't go to a place and spend a lot if you know you won't have money the next day.
Don't go online shopping when you know you have lots of things you need to buy.
Don't order stuff if you know you won't be able to pay on time, specially when you're going to use someone else's money to pay for you first.
Most importantly, Don't drag people down because of your lack of accountability and commitment.
If you know me and we've talked for quite some time, and we agreed on some stuff (like me paying for you as long as you pay me in a specific date), then that's fine. I even have some fandom friends whom I bought stuff for and they're going to pay me after I shipped the items to them. It's fine with me, so as long as they really pay on the time they say they will.
I am a good negotiator. I tend to adjust so much even though I am the one being compromised, but if I've given enough adjustments and I already compromised a lot of things yet you still haven't made ANY effort to do your responsibility, then I am not going to tolerate it.
Sometimes, I hate being extra kind because people tend to abuse my kindness.
If you don't know me and you aren't my friend, you don't have ANY right to make me feel violated.
If you just knew me in real life, you wouldn't even dare do that. TRUST ME.
Won't be putting this under a cut.