Ah, opposite gender, how you annoy me...
Reiteration:
MALES = DUMB
They all suck.
KTHXBAI
Okay. I've got Robert, who, while I care for, doesn't seem to understand that a long distance relationship actually requires work, and so I got stuck with most of said work. I went three weeks without hearing a single word from him, despite not only Sophia sending him a message, but sending one myself, both of which he failed to respond to for at least a week and half - and that was just to mine. And when he did, he didn't even respond to the IMPORTANT things.
Then I've got Jessie, a former ex. We had broken up, then about a year later, started talking again, hanging out as friends. He then proceeded to be a complete jackass to me, and so I spent the next, oh, six months or so not talking to him. He has once again decided to re-initiate conversation. He claims that the reason he was a jackass was because he was dealing with some crap, and he didn't want to involve me in it. Then, too, he said that some of it was because he was listening to his roommate, who was apparently talking crap about me behind my back, and so Jessie started treating me like crap because of that, too. He now wants to try, yet again, to be friends again, but obviously I am more than a little wary of this. He's had a second chance already and he blew it. Despite his apologies - and the fact that BOTH times contact has been initiated in the span of not talking, he was the one who did it... does he really deserve a THIRD chance?
THEN, to top it all off, there's a couple of guys who are friends of Sophia's boyfriend who just so happen to like me. One is single and is going to be a Marine, the other is not single, but only became not single when he decided (without even talking to Sophia) if he might even have a chance with me should something happen between me and Robert.
So now I've got this hideous problem of too many guys, NONE OF WHOM seem to know WTF they're doing, when, why, etc.
So where the hell does that leave ME?
Annoyed, that's where.
I'm this close [--> || <--] to just saying FUCKITALL to relationships for the time being, because I obviously can't seem to get them right.
UGH.
MALES = DUMB
They all suck.
KTHXBAI
Okay. I've got Robert, who, while I care for, doesn't seem to understand that a long distance relationship actually requires work, and so I got stuck with most of said work. I went three weeks without hearing a single word from him, despite not only Sophia sending him a message, but sending one myself, both of which he failed to respond to for at least a week and half - and that was just to mine. And when he did, he didn't even respond to the IMPORTANT things.
Then I've got Jessie, a former ex. We had broken up, then about a year later, started talking again, hanging out as friends. He then proceeded to be a complete jackass to me, and so I spent the next, oh, six months or so not talking to him. He has once again decided to re-initiate conversation. He claims that the reason he was a jackass was because he was dealing with some crap, and he didn't want to involve me in it. Then, too, he said that some of it was because he was listening to his roommate, who was apparently talking crap about me behind my back, and so Jessie started treating me like crap because of that, too. He now wants to try, yet again, to be friends again, but obviously I am more than a little wary of this. He's had a second chance already and he blew it. Despite his apologies - and the fact that BOTH times contact has been initiated in the span of not talking, he was the one who did it... does he really deserve a THIRD chance?
THEN, to top it all off, there's a couple of guys who are friends of Sophia's boyfriend who just so happen to like me. One is single and is going to be a Marine, the other is not single, but only became not single when he decided (without even talking to Sophia) if he might even have a chance with me should something happen between me and Robert.
So now I've got this hideous problem of too many guys, NONE OF WHOM seem to know WTF they're doing, when, why, etc.
So where the hell does that leave ME?
Annoyed, that's where.
I'm this close [--> || <--] to just saying FUCKITALL to relationships for the time being, because I obviously can't seem to get them right.
UGH.