I haven't seen this pretty scary story mentioned yet. A man allegedly impersonated his ex-mistress on collarme.com and made detailed fake posts about her kidnap/rape fantasies, in an attempt to incite someone to actually kidnap and rape her. Luckily someone who knew the intended victim saw the posts and warned her before she was attacked ( Read more... )

Cheating and bdsm ( Read more... )

It's funny how an evolving interest in new types of play recapitulates the evolution of interest in sex. Substitute gender nouns as appropriate ( Read more... )

shadeofnight's comment to an earlier post touched on an interesting point: emotional closeness and play. Sometimes you want or need a strong emotional bond, other times you'd prefer there not be one, and other times it doesn't really matter. How does it work for you? What do you need? When and why? Does it depend on whether you're the top or the bottom, the ( Read more... )

So rdhdsnippet played hooky today. She's not very good at it so I went over to help. ;) There was some cooking, some cleaning, and some other stuff...

nminusone: i was at rdhdsnippet's for a bit
geekchick: ah
nminusone: i mumbled something about it last night but we were both sleepy i think
geekchick: i must've been asleep, since i have zero memory of that
nminusone: mostly we took a nap :)
geekchick: heh
nminusone: it's what ( Read more... )

I guess I've made a few toys lately. A few people I know host various types of craft days, maybe I should host a kinky craft day. We have some space, most of the tools people usually need, and a bunch of supplies too. I could even do some demos, since I always seem to have quite a few works in progress.

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Saturday (?) I went to Home Depot and then Lowes for some blue rope. I didn't find any, nor any of the tubing I wanted, but ( Read more... )

From orlaith, an article about "fetish": All dressed up - in latex and dog collars. It sometimes says "fetish" where I'd have said "bdsm" or "kink", but it's still an interesting look at kink from the vanilla perspective. It's part of a series, America Unzipped.

The article includes a poll; When I took it the results were as follows ( Read more... )

Fun, but long and very busy. Even skipping lots of things I'll still have to strike a balance between having fun and overworking my back again, which will be an interesting challenge. See a bunch of you soon! :)
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Way behind

Last Tuesday's BR panel ("Long term successful polyamory - myth or reality?") was a good one. rdhdsnippet, bratboy, fortryll (moderator), fireandearth and 3ravensringo were presenting.

I've been poly for ~8 years and geekchick for longer, so we'd at least suspected long term poly was possible... still it was nice to finally have proof. ;) The audience seemed newer to poly; topics and ( Read more... )