night caps

Jun 23, 2006 00:22

matthew and i engaged the processes tonight, and covered some valuable ground.

the value of the hypothetical )

weasels, conversations, comfort, matthew, communication, responsibility, relationships, needs & wants, process work

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the_nita June 23 2006, 12:38:33 UTC
Read this this morning before my bath. Went "Okay - so you want me to kick your ass as needed."

"hurh - no, wants me to help her kick her own ass"

"mmm...no. Wants me to ask her if she's aware she needs to kick her own ass."

I'm fairly sure I get what you want from me. But apparently my not-quite-kick-started brain has difficulty putting it in coherent words.

But as always, sure thing, babe. (sudden very wry giggling) And I suspect I'm better with confrontation than Matthew. *snort*

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xiphia June 23 2006, 14:48:05 UTC
*giggles* Damn it woman, why don't you live closer? Anyone who cracks me up this badly before coffee is someone I definitely want to get to know better.

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the_nita June 23 2006, 14:54:01 UTC
*florid bow*

I'm good at being amusing when I'm being self-mocking of my barely-awake brain....

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much_ado June 23 2006, 14:57:43 UTC
in some ways, the *cats* are better at confrontation that matthew, who consistently fails to pee on my laundry when i don't meet his needs for a clean crapper ;-)

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the_nita June 23 2006, 15:07:22 UTC
I suppose this means I can stop paying my Enabler union dues.

I think we already agreed to do that in the earlier post...*G*

But yah. Or at least with regards to her...

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the_nita June 23 2006, 15:06:31 UTC
*helpless laughter*

Oh, dear gods, here's hoping he doesn't take that as an invitation....

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matthew_g June 23 2006, 16:06:04 UTC
The thought does occur, doesn't it?

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the_nita June 23 2006, 19:13:02 UTC
If that's the kind of reinforcement she needs....it's not my place to judge. *G*

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matthew_g June 23 2006, 16:07:04 UTC
In all fairness, that's not a way that place where my needs are unmet. :)

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matthew_g June 23 2006, 15:56:48 UTC
*chuckle* Yes, yes, I expect you are. :>

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the_nita June 23 2006, 19:12:34 UTC
Sweetie, I'm better at confrontation than some small african countries....

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