Apr 29, 2012 10:33
Is it mature to delegate responsibilities which I am too overextended to do myself to people who are willing and able to them, or is it childish to allow my parents to visit wedding venues and talk to caterers for me?
Is it mature to become independent from my immediate family or immature to blow them off and ignore them?
Is it mature to accept (or even encourage) my parents contributions to our future home because it's a good real estate investment for them, or is it a mark of immaturity to accept or ask for money from my parents if I don't need it?
Is it mature to assert my individuality and independence in my wedding choices or immature to reject suggestions out of a need to be contrary because the suggestions are too much like what everyone else is doing?