[Moya] Sexual exploration and new partners

[moominmuppet]

One of the things I very greatly appreciate about NL is that he's not at all offended or threatened if I pause in the middle of things to explain why X works for me, or Y doesn't, or to give him suggestions on things I know really get a reaction from me, or explain why I think there's a "grand unifying theory" on why I react the way I do. Hell,

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[moominmuppet]

You won't be permanently stretched out (aside from the perineum itself, everything else that you're talking about is muscle, and exercising it just doesn't have that effect -- I can take a hand, but still dearly love a good cock), but experimenting with penetration play that's beyond your normal comfort level is really a process that you should get to control. Being comfortable and relaxed makes a huge difference in the ability and the fun of playing with more intense penetration. Better for your partner to move slowly, and wait for your encouragement to take things up a notch, than for him to move too fast and cause you to tense up. If you expect discomfort, it'll often become self-fulfilling because your vaginal muscles will tense in anticipation of that