Relationships
Sometimes, just sometimes, I get frustrated with my relationship. In particular my partner hiding things from me. I accept that he has a right to his privacy, and I don't begrudge that. What I do have a problem with is that he seems to be so damned secretive about his phone. I reached for it today to check the time and he snatched it away from me. I could see that he had a few texts waiting to be responded too, and of course I then wondered what it was in those texts he was hiding from me. I mean, I don't have a problem with him using my phone, seeing any of the texts, looking through it. I have nothing to hide. In fact, I often leave my phone out to be answered by him when I have clients, and I have nothing to fear about who is ringing and why.
So now I have the doubt in my head. Who is he texting? Why is he worried that I see it? What are they talking about? It doesn't help that my man trains human pups, and we agree that there will be no sexual contact in the training (though I have learned that there has in fact been some sexual contact already which I'm not happy about). This only leads me into wondering what else has been going on.
Of course I could just ask him, but the answer will be nothing, or that he won't want to answer, as it's between him and his pups.
I think of myself as a fairly open-minded man, but I do draw the line at having an open relationship. I've had them in the past, and I have no interest in having one now. It's just not for me. Trust can be difficult to maintain, but it's even harder when you partner leads you into believing that he is hiding things from you.
So now I have the doubt in my head. Who is he texting? Why is he worried that I see it? What are they talking about? It doesn't help that my man trains human pups, and we agree that there will be no sexual contact in the training (though I have learned that there has in fact been some sexual contact already which I'm not happy about). This only leads me into wondering what else has been going on.
Of course I could just ask him, but the answer will be nothing, or that he won't want to answer, as it's between him and his pups.
I think of myself as a fairly open-minded man, but I do draw the line at having an open relationship. I've had them in the past, and I have no interest in having one now. It's just not for me. Trust can be difficult to maintain, but it's even harder when you partner leads you into believing that he is hiding things from you.