i have a "loser" bf...

Jul 19, 2006 18:27

So I was checking my email and this story was on the yahoo homepage yesterday and I clicked on it and when I read it it sounded all to familiar ( Read more... )

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_____starlight July 26 2006, 07:41:57 UTC
Sounds like a problem I had, too.
So, the only advice I can give you is from experience, and it is this:
The second you don't seem to have the "love endlessly" feeling, realize it is over, and I am thinking the feeling is probably gone if you want a "better" boyfriend with "less flaws." Don't settle.
If you keep breaking up and getting back together, it is probably not going to work out.
If he has little ambition now, he probably won't change.
And, last but not least, don't stay with him because you are afraid you won't find someone better because you will, but you have to let yourself.

You are a great girl, and you shouldn't settle for a loser boyfriend. You are worth way more than that.

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lost___bohemian July 26 2006, 13:19:13 UTC
Thanks Darcy ( ... )

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_____starlight July 26 2006, 20:52:27 UTC
DUMP HIM!!!
You sound miserable, and if he is happy being a nothing, then let him be a nothing, but don't slow your life down.
And, when he tries to make you the bad guy, just remember that you aren't. You are the one that has been keeping things going when he wouldn't.
You can keep going like this, especially with abuse.
I'm worried about you now.
Just get away from his before the relationship gets any worse.
<3

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lost___bohemian July 26 2006, 22:31:17 UTC
You are so wise Darcy :-)

You're right, so right. And I've known that I should've ended the relationship since I've moved to Austin.
What's funny is I've trained my mind into thinking that I couldn't get
any other guy to love me and I was playing a fool.
Everyone has told me to leave him & I guess I was just
being rebellious not doing so but I just can't take it anymore.
I'm taking my friends advice and I'm sticking to my guns.
...pray for me.

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_____starlight July 27 2006, 02:05:42 UTC
It's for the best. <33333
I will pray for you.

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