What Would You Do?
So, it's no secret that my husband is having a MAJOR love affair with his son. I think it's cute and good for Sebastian to have a father so invested in him. HOWEVER...
Jacquelynn called me last night to inform me that the dates I had planned out for this 4-day girlie weekend with the cousins (Sebastian, Cyrus and baby Logan when he is born) is not going to work from her. I picked that weekend because Robert will be gone with my dad for 10 days in Alaska fishing. Well, I mentioned last night briefly that that weekend isn't going to work for Jacquelynn and R basically put the kibosh on finding another weekend. I didn't get into it too much but I mentioned I would need to find another weekend and he said, "that's fine, but you'll need to leave Sebi here."
*sigh*
He was joking but not really. I know he is going to have a major problem with me leaving for 4 days with Sebastian. He sees weekend time as 'family time' because he doesn't get to see a ton of Sebastian during the week (well, now neither of us do really). And I agree but this sort of thing doesn't happen often. He did suggest leaving Jacquelynn behind which is an option but I know from the girl's standpoint, why would we when we could just pick another weekend? I just know I'm going to get a lot of concerned stares when I say R doesn't want me to go on a weekend when he is home.
Am I being unreasonable in thinking R should sorta just suck it up for one weekend? Honestly I don't foresee this happening again any time soon. And it isn't going to be until July - Sebi will be 9 months by then. I would like to be told I'm being unreasonable OR at least have time to get my arguments straight before gently bringing this up for more discussion tonight.